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The children of today are under a myth that whatever they do is correct and they need not think twice before taking any step. They have developed this attitude due to wrong learning from the television and Hollywood movies. Sometimes even the peers and friends give a wrong guidance. It is thus the duty of the parents to guide their children to the right path. Parents need to be really understanding and patient in such a case. If they loose their patience and shout back on their children it would lead to serious problems like the child becoming really aggressive and irritated.

There are many situations and problems that your child faces for the first time in life. He has not faced such things earlier. The parent thus should prepare the child well in advance for such a situation. Situations can be as small as choosing what to wear to as big as choosing the right career path or may be the life partner. If the child makes the right choice then the child remains happy life long but a wrong decision can make a person’s life a living hell. Thus one should think well before taking a decision. Certain decisions affect the whole family. Thus teach your child well in advance.

a) Choose the correct kind of food: Many people are really very fond of food. What should one eat and what not is really a difficult question. One should teach their children the right way to eat. The children should be taught that have healthy and nutritious food. Girls especially should be told the problems faced when one goes for crash dieting. Thus it is very important to eat the right way so as to face the various challenges one may face in life.

b) Teach them what and when to speak: The children should be taught what and when to speak. Words are something that can destroy or build healthy relationships. Teach them to speak politely to everyone around. Teach them to respect everyone and be nice to everyone they talk to.

c) Choose the right career: Career is something which may rule a person’s life. If a person selects a career path which matches the personality of the person then the person excels a lot in that stream. Thus teach them and help them choose the right occupation for themselves.

d) Teach them to choose the right friends: Friends influence a person’s personality completely. A person can get completely destroyed in a bad company. Teach them to choose the right kind of friends. Choose friends with whom one can share their joy and happiness. Choose motivating friends rather than degrading ones.

e) Teach your child to choose the right kind of life partner: A life partner is one that remains with a person throughout his life time. A good life partner can make your life heaven where as a bad one can ruin one’s life completely. Thus teach your child to choose a life partner who could understand him well, be with him through all thick and thin.

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PARENTING CAN BE AN OVERWHELMING TASK.
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Honest Parenting is truly helpful information that is easy to understand and absolutely works to help you build (or RE-build) a positive, pleasant, and productive relationship with your child or teen. It’s about your relationship with them, and about THEIR relationship with you, your family, and everyone that they come in contact with. It’s about them growing up to be responsible, productive, independent, happy adults. You are given the actions to take, words to say, and all of the necessary tools to tear down the wall, repair the relationship , and have a REAL life with your family that centers around SMILES… NOT STRESS!

It is a proven fact that most children copy their parents’ actions and even their mannerisms, and desires to follow their footsteps, but there’s also those who doesn’t want to become like their parents and most of the time defies them. For you to understand the issues at hand with regards to your children is for you to place yourself in their shoes. Parenting skill is something that you must become skilled at and it is basically earned. This is the only path that will lead you to self-comfort most especially in those difficult situations that you are most likely to face in the future with your offspring. What is important is that keep in mind that you should never give up. Remember, parenting is a never ending job. Even after all of your children have grown up, they will still come to you for advices

TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE
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Always remember to allow them to earn things that they want, and for you not to give in easy. They feel confident enough to rise above any situation. This is for them to learn on how to earn what they want and be empowered to make their own true happiness.

GET YOUR KIDS TO COMPLY IN NICE WAYS
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Try putting a marble in a jar whenever your child starts doing something for the first time that you asked, simply state the rule. If your child argues, all you have to do is to repeat that rule over and over, as opposed to with you entering into a debate.

QUALITY FAMILY TIME LASTS A LIFETIME
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It’s better to make a gradual routine change as opposed to major drastic changes that’ll certainly bring about all kinds of objections. After finding that your family is now beginning to enjoy and are all looking forward to your family spending time together, they may even ask that family dinners may be extended. It actually depends on how chaotic your current family schedule has become, this will then help you determine how great of a challenge it is for you to change your thinking for this quality time can be set aside. Family time is very importance and should be your priority even when you are extremely busy.

COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS
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A lot of the parents now keeps a strict eye on their children. Oh, Yes We’ve been through difficult years or so, and then of course we know a lot better compared to our children, what we must bear in mind is that time changes and what might be right for us may also not right for our children. You have the choice ad the chance to curve your life’s path towards being a good parent.

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Most of us don’t realize that we are taking our lives for granted until we are faced with a major medical issue or we suffer the deep and tragic loss of a loved one. The major medical issues maybe the result or the reason for the loss of the loved one. Such a situation can rip you wide open to your Core. It can cause a pain so intense that it either cancels you or give you a new platform from which to operate your life. Whether voluntary or involuntary, the loss of a child is an excruciating experience. Nothing is felt more intensely by a woman than the loss of her child. She will feel it far more intensely than her partner will. Unfortunately, this maybe one of the reasons why women, who has experienced this traumatic ordeal, do not receive the strong support that they need. Putting your life back together after a traumatic experience can be very difficult but it is not impossible.

The road to recovery maybe different for each woman and each woman reacts differently depending on how she is dealing with it.  It is imperative that friends and family or even worse her partner to be sensitive during her difficult time.  They should be careful to not downplay her emotions and her reactions.  Telling her that she is being affected worse than other women conveys the message that she is over-reacting.  Re-building your self-confidence after any life-changing event, whether it was a death in the family, an abusive relationship that finally  ended, suffering from a miscarriage or other difficult health issues, takes some time and patience on your part.  It is understandable if you are feeling down, but resist the urge to beat upon yourself.  Remember that you did the best you could during whatever situation that had taken place.  Now is the time to apply the lessons learned and to acknowledge the purpose of that event.  It is a daunting and sometimes overwhelming task, but not an impossible one.  Time does not necessarily heal wounds, however, patience and self-love does.   

Getting the little things done may suddenly seem overwhelming.  Things you have done with such mental ease now seem to be the most mountainous task to tackle. 

v     Have genuine friends around you who are supportive and understanding.

v     Have a crazy friend who can make you laugh at the drop of a hat (This person may not necessarily be the same as the supportive friend, but they can also be one and the same).

v     Create some alone time for yourself.  This may be the last thing you may feel you want, but taking some alone time to go away for a few days will help to refresh and rejuvenate your soul and you will return better able to face and handle the situation.  However, be careful about taking too much time alone where you are not seeking to relax your soul.  This is not the time for heavy drinking, too much sex and taking things to the extreme just to numb the pain.  Remember, you are working on healing yourself not damaging yourself further.

v     Write out your thoughts in a Journal.  You don’t have to write in it everyday, but it would be good to.  There are days when you will write one page and there are days when you will write dozens of pages.

v     It is normal to want to have a child right away to make up for the one you have lost, but that is the pain mixed with the mother in you talking.  It is wise to not make any major decisions while you are still in pain.  A child conceived in pain will prove very traumatic for the child throughout his or her life not to mention the interaction between parent and child.

Your healing process will take time. You won’t get up one day feeling completely healed. You will begin to feel a little better each day until the pain is a dull ache. Word of caution, the pain will always be there, because it is the loss of a child. However, there will come a time when the pain won’t control your life. You can and will be able to live a full life after the loss of a loved one. Know you are loved by your child or other loved one whom you have lost. The love you have for your child or other loved one will become an immense comfort to you.

Suffering the deep and tragic loss of a loved one thru a miscarriage, a parent dying, other close family member or the loss of a friend, can be deeply heartbreaking. It can rip you open to the very Core. The pain one suffers from such a loss should never be taken for granted by anyone. It is important to go thru the healing process. You may not know how long it will take, but only you can know when you have healed.

Serenity prayer:

God grant me the serenity

To accept the things I cannot change;

Courage to change the things I can;

And wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;

Enjoying one moment at a time;

Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;

Taking, as He did, this sinful world

As it is, not as I would have it;

Trusting that He will make all things right

If I surrender to His Will;

So that I may be reasonably happy in this life

And supremely happy with Him

Forever and ever in the next.  AMEN!

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How on earth can you help an oppositional child? It seems that he or she has set up road blocks and your guarantee of a happier family life is blocked. The child is argumentative, obstructive, defiant and resents any form of authority. In addition, his or her short temper and irritability makes everybody wary of him.

There is some very good advice about the oppositional child in David Swanson’s book Help! My Kid Is Driving Me Crazy: The 17 Ways Kids Manipulate Their Parents and What You Can Do About It. There are some useful techniques in this book and the best one I found was his emphasis on how to spend more time connecting with our children than in actually fighting them.

As the title of that book suggests, manipulation is one of the tools of power which oppositional kids can use mercilessly and relentlessly. This is especially relevant when the parents are not both signed up to dealing with inappropriate behavior. If there is any inconsistency at all, the child will be the first to spot it and exploit it!

Oppositional kids usually have a different agenda to their parents. Their main aim in life is to be happy. That may be in conflict at times with parents’ desire to ensure the safety of their child and also to act in their best interests. This is where many conflicts arise. They will really use as many of the seventeen ways that they can to manipulate. They are using these with the sole purpose to get what they want.

Here are some suggestions as to how we can deal with this type of oppositional behavior. Our main aim is to teach our kids to grow into responsible adults and we may have to make decisions about their safety rather than indulging them. No need to guess what most parents do!

We have to develop ways to deal with unacceptable behavior and this has to be established before that behavior becomes ingrained or even part of the routine. We have to be able to enforce them with relentless consistency and we need all the help from our spouse for that one.

We need to focus on one or two aspects of their behavior rather than nagging them all day! That helps the kids to focus on those particular goals. When you have achieved something in those areas where there is a marked improvement, you can move on to the next one.

There are loads of other ways we can learn to manage an oppositional child. Why not take advantage of the experience of one of America’s foremost behavior therapists who will guide you through every situation and tell you how to react to it. You will learn useful strategies on what to do so that your family’s happiness and serenity is not eroded or put at risk.

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ATHERVA VEDHA AND ITS UTILIZATION FOR CHILD CARE
Some events and happening, even though they are old , on the ground of essentialities we have to bring back to our memory. It has the important as well as the notification for the care of child. Hindu temple of Georgia and its founder Dr Commander Selvam “Siddhar” dedicated to the society and the people of united states as well as to the entire human community of the whole universe. During the early 20th century, ie during1997 to 2004 this establishment had the strong footings at California where the people of different sections continued with duties of so many problem had the benefit to over come of their different difficulties which stood on their way for progress. You might have heard about Atharva Vedha here it is found suitable to explain the epic of India “ The Maha Bharatha”. In this great epic the war between Pandavas and Thirudharashtrs are explained in a most Jurst ful ways. In those olden days the usage of Atharva Vedha was in practice. This specific Vedha employed to use the Weapon of “ Naga Asthra” . This relate to the spreading of Poison of Cobra on the soldiers of Enemy’s side. To Prevent the dangerous effects of Asthra, there were proper slogans. Some time the Agniasthra will be deployed and the apportion camp will be striking the same with ‘Varuna Asthra’ that is by the Source of huge spray of water. Theis kind of attack was common on war filed. The Atharva Vedha was the Main cause for their particular miletiry practice. Sri Selvam Siddhar (Dr. Commander Selvam) has the thorough knowledge to use such diplomatic ways in the lives of suffering categories. In a nutshall explanation the epic ‘ Maha Baharatha’ in given here for the reference.

In Mahabharata the character Saguni was described as most wicked and cunning. He was the cause for the downfall of ‘Pandavas kingdom’. This kingdom was ruled by Dharma the elder son of the diseased king Pandava. Dharma had four brother called, Bhima, Arjuna Nakula and sahadeva. Very honorable and justice bound characters were fully ruled over all the three brothers. They were warriors and by the virtue of their norms they had annexed so many small kingdoms captured by Justiful ways.

Thirutharastra,the younger brother of king pandu was the uncle to pandavas. Thirutherastra had hundred Sons who where headed by Duriyodhana as eldest of sons. The jealousy and crooked minded Duriyodhana was always with the nature of greediness and planned to aquire the kingdom of Pandavas. This was designed and crafted by Saguni the uncle of Duriyodhana. Naturally he was uncle for Pandavas also when&nbs p; Pandu and Dhirutharasthra were born as brothers. Duriyodhana was not gifted with huge lands or the military requirements. So, it was by the means of gamble he tried to beat the ,noble brothers pandavas.

Saguni was most talented in doing the Black magic , assisted the team of Duriyodhana to come out victoriously on Pandavas who became orphan and penniless and lost their big wealth and the kingdoms. Sure the end of gamble will always ruin the victims. They had to leave the country and live for 14 years. Lord Krishna the saviour of pandavas was helped to get back the country which was last in a gamble. “saguni” sought many ways of black magic to kill the family of Pandavas when they returned after 14 years. Lord Krishna knew well all the conspiracy of “saguni” and that he took the measure of beating them with the same way of tricks and cunningness. There the necessity took place to the usage of “Atharva vedhas”. Where the thorn is piercing inside the foot,&nbsp ; an another’s thorn only the instrument needed to remove it. That policy was naturally previled and for all the attacks of Saguni Lord Krishna. Encountered successfully to safe guard the Pandavas. And that the fall of Thirutharasthra’s dynasty. The pandavas had covered their kingdom and all the wealth. Here the Atharva vedha and the norms were highly focused for the Victory of Pandavas. In the life of every human being the troubles are entering and the remedies through the vedic methods are to be followed. Sri Selvam Siddhar (Dr. Commandar Selvam ) is well versed in the practice of Atharva vedha which is the treasury for remedies. Only in India the last four thousand years. Even today the usage to stop the heavy fever Atharva vedha process is being chanted by the priests. For snake bite the manthras are chanted and to the great excitement/ the patients are cured to recover from such poisonous attacks. Certain severe cases while chanting the slogans from Atherva Vedha, the snake which made the bite will return back from the field and suck the poison from the body’s of the Victim. And in India there was one station master in kerala who was a genuine practicer of Atharva vedha . He used to get only message of snake bite from distant place. The message will come through telephonic conversation. On the spot he will remove his towel from the shoulder and he will cut it into pieces. Them he will start chanting the Atharva vedha Mantras . Most astonishingly the patient at a distant place get cure and meet the station master on the next day. This kind of information’s seemed to be some what unbelievable but they are true.

Now, we have to privilege in to the subject of “CHILDREN ISSUE” , If we begin it then it will be an ocean for discussion Sri Selvam sidhar had an opportunity to visit the Temple a Sri Ragavendra on the Bank of Tunga badra in Andhra Pradesh, India. Sri Ragavendra was the well known saint in the Period of British Regim that is in early in 19th century. The saint was regarded for his great power of meditation. He had called all his disciples on one day and informed them, that the service and duties to render to the people and to the religion was coming to an end end that he had to sit in samathi for his abode to reach the feet of the God. The disciples were crying all the day and they could do nothing except to serve the orders of their Guru (Teacher). They digged the soil and made the room inside the earth. The stone walls were prepared. The Guru then entered in and sat saying the slogarn “Namo Narayana” The upper portion was covered by stone slab. Then the soil was spread over the samathy and closed completely. Thousands and Thousand of devotees gathered there with prayer “Sri Ragavendraya Namaha all of them weeping and found unbearable to note the departure of their beloved Guru

The disciplines and deootees converted ashram as Temple for Sri Ragavendra. days and years passed. The Revanue collection and the annexing of the lands infavour of the prevailed British Goverment came in to force but the people and deciples object Government.The Governer paid his visit to the temple.To his astonishments the saint Sri Ragavendra himself appeared and explained all about religious worships and the sanctum affairs of the Hindu Religion. The Governor could utter no objection to the comments of the saint. He simply passed order to waive the bill of Revenue collections and passed orders to acquire as much land the Temple require. &n bsp; This sound proof of deal was registered in the activities of Government on those days Since the World is having so many strange and sacred places Sri Selvam Siddhar had the vision to collect such details of information for the welfare of manly hood. In the history Sri Ragavendra, he was on the way to a remote the village. It was noon on hot summer. Some ladies were going inside the house to vender some helps. An old women was crossing by that time. Sri Raganendra enquird the happening and this real matters which was going inside the house the old woman was the mother in law of a humble women who was about to give delivery for a child. She cried and burst in tears to say that her daughter in law was unfortunate girl since she had lost all her five children, very accurately on the juncture of delivering time . Sri Ragavendra felt pity over the girls and through his meditation power under stood the real calamity and wished to save that poor family= 20 as a relief.

On the occasion of delivery a devil so called as “Fireymouth” used to come and take away. The life of new born baby. ‘Firey Mouth Devil’ a spirit with spreading fire from the month used to wait till the date of delivery and on such a particular time, will reach the come and take away the life of the child. Knowing the forth coming event Sri Ragavendra asked to the woman bring one soil plate. During old days, plate made of soil were used in village to preserve the cooked food. The saint after receiving the plate created a burning fire on the plate and permitted the plate to circle around the house. The speed was increasing and making a safety zone around the house. On a particular movement the plate took a stop and was beginning to attack another fire ball which was no other than the ‘fireymouth devil’ the power of saintt won the fight and the devil ran away. The hunnble woman gave birth to a child conveniently. for this child sri Ragavendra blessing came and had the fortune to be safeguarded. But in the lives of other cases of hundred and thousands who could reach in time and save the situation considering to this pity movements. It is to the essential matter of vigil to be followed from the time of pregnancy itself. So many elders are as children less. So many are in want to adoption of a child. To be blessed with child in boon. On the earth one and all should have the blessing for their particular matter of child issue. =0 A

Now the medical world is praise elaborately and honored made science there a great down fall in the graphs which registers the great cut in death. This gives the meaning that the over population and shortage to essentialities. Medical guidance is for survival. But it will no guide to develop a character or to provide a society with sacred norms. Our religions have paved the proper way of living. There were regulations in marriage. There were strict conditions in habits and customs. Even the ‘Marriage’ it was with great filtering process of bad characters and un usual behaviors. All followed with the season of human growth . When the youth hood attained the feelings of ‘Kama’ that is ‘sex’ will vibrate the brain. In that Vibration the regularity and the purity is missing . ‘Shanthi Moohurtha’ is the world in Sanskrit relates to uncontrollable feelings and desire on sex, reach the destination on that period of youth hood. The elders will arrange the marriage with proper companion. So the ‘Shanthi’ will reach and control the brutal chase and the beast behavior . This day is called nuptial day the status of husband and wife are granted to that couple with proper season of age. So they are fortified with proper way of bringing for progressive future. Till to this day of marriage the duty of bringing up the child fell on the parents. Mostly the Mother to attend the major deities. Sri Selvam Siddhar has formulated all the needy norms and help to the society to bring their children with modesty and find habit. Sri Selvam Siddhar (Dr. Commander Selvam) had his deep studies in Atharva vedha , from his Guru Viswanbara Namboothiri in Kerala. For all kind to solutions no tedious way are sought. Only to the simple and short methods of application of Atharva vedha he guides to the society of parents and save the children in a safety way.

Just delivering the child as well as to feed them will not be sufficient. The children should grow with safety and no danger should come to their life. The friendship should be preferred with top priority. The habits of to be regulated. Some children lay as handicapped. There are several remedies to cure that also. Some children become addict to intoxicating stuffs. Some are diverted with early and unusual sex affairs. So the child caring ,should be with vigil in all sort of life. The herbal trea tment and the Vedic treatment with proper slogan of Mantra, they are to be shaped as good citizen of nation. Parents should feel happy to settle them in the married lives. Now a days, the busy atmosphere and fast moments in career and jobs will not permit the parents to pays steady attention on children.

With all similar causes our Hindu Temple of Georgia will be in a position to associate with the problems of children. Sri Selvam Siddhar (Dr. Commander Selvam) will be giving you most important process and methods for the welfare of your own kids. Kindly Contact Hindu Temple of Georgia in Toll Free @ 1-8… or call Swamiji His Holiness Param Pujya Sri Sri Selvam Siddhar also known as Dr.Commander Selvam for more understanding and help with all kinds of children problems including not able to conceive a child.

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Dr. Commander Selvam (Swamiji Sri.Selvam Siddhar) is the most learned Atharva Veda scholar. He has researched the Atharva Veda and has brought out a lot of hidden things.
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